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LGBTQIA+ Thoughts: "Am I Not Fucking Trans Enough?"
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LGBTQIA+ Thoughts: "Am I Not Fucking Trans Enough?"

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The Imposter Syndrome Mindfuck That Won't Shut Up

Tackling that voice that says you're faking it

The Doubt Demon

You know that fucking voice in your head? The one that whispers "you're not trans enough" when you're just trying to live your life? According to the Trans Mental Health Survey (2024), 87% of trans individuals deal with this exact bullshit. So first off, welcome to the club – we've got jackets, and they're all equally fucking valid.

Am I trans even if I used to be okay with my birth gender? - Trans Lifeline

Breaking Down The Bullshit

Let's look at what "not trans enough" actually means:

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The Common Triggers

  • Don't hate every part of your body? Still trans.

  • Didn't know since age 2? Still trans.

  • Don't want every surgery? Still trans.

  • Sometimes okay with your birth name? Still trans.

  • Like some things associated with your assigned gender? Still fucking trans.

What Research Actually Shows

Dr. Alex Martinez's 2024 study on trans ident…

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