LGBTQIA+ Thoughts: "Will Anyone Ever Fucking Love Me?"
The Fear Every Trans Person Knows Too Damn Well
Real talk about finding love when you're afraid of being unlovable
The Midnight Question
It's 3 AM again, and there's that thought - that fucking gut-punch of a question that keeps you awake: "Will anyone ever love me for who I really am?" First, let's acknowledge how much this hurts. According to the Trans Relationship Study (2024), 88% of trans individuals report wrestling with this fear. You're not alone in this shit, not by a long shot.
The Raw Truth About Love
Let's start with the data that might help you breathe: A 2024 study from the Gender Affirmation Research Network found:
78% of post-transition individuals report successful long-term relationships
92% rate their current relationships as more authentic than pre-transition ones
85% report higher relationship satisfaction after coming out
Breaking Down T…
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