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Navigating New Love When You're Trans: The Questions Nobody Fucking Tells You to Ask
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Navigating New Love When You're Trans: The Questions Nobody Fucking Tells You to Ask

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Because starting a relationship is hard enough without society's bullshit

Starting a new relationship is already a complex dance of vulnerability, communication, and boundary-setting—and as a transgender person, there are additional layers to navigate. Let me break this down in a way that's actually useful and addresses what you're really asking about.

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The Early Days: Setting the Foundation

First off, congratulations on your new relationship! That shit is exciting regardless of who you are. But let's get real about what makes this unique for you.

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When you're transgender, a new relationship involves decisions about disclosure, safety, and authenticity that cisgender people rarely have to consider. The first question you should ask yourself is brutally simple: Do I feel safe with this person? This isn't just about physical safety (though that's crucial), b…

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