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nobodynowhere's avatar

FACTS! Wither or not one is "On" Medicaid, if you live in a rural area, you can be ASSURED that your local Hospital is "On Medicaid".

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My experience is dated, but I suspect it's still similar as I visited the same place 3 years ago and little had changed: In the poorest communities in Appalachia, the entire bell curve of health and healthcare is depressed disproportionately. The young come in sicker, their parents come in saddled with addiction or mental health issues (anxiety, depression among the most common). It is a bad situation that's flammable even before we get to LGBTQIA+ issues.

You bring to light telehealth, which can be a saving grace for extending care into these areas. If someone is seeking care, especially for mental health, in an LGBTQIA+ scenario, this is likely the only route where full disclosure will be more than tolerated. The human being involved has a much better chance at getting equitable care from compassionate providers.

There's an underlying point I think needs said out loud. Young LGBTQIA+ people should set their sights on getting the fuck out as fast and furiously as they can from those places. There are too many cliques, too many people who know secrets about one another, and the people going through issues involving sexuality and gender are at risk of serious violence. It took me exactly one shift during a long run of them in an ER seeing a young man come in practically beat to death with contusions, fractures, and internal bleeding to know he would never, ever, ever be safe in that community. He'd been targeted, and in those smaller spaces, there is nowhere to go.

I hope someone reads this and understands how important it is to not rely on other people to make decisions for you, especially in these times when assholes are emboldened all the more to inflict damage on others in the name of their shithead god, or shithead beliefs. Go somewhere you will be accepted and be safe as possible and do what Wendy discusses here.

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